hi, it's me.
H.I.M. is a social app for gay men who want real friendships — built around the way we actually used to connect. Pick a screenname. Write an away message. Build a buddy list. No swiping. No grid. No pressure.
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Be whoever you actually are. Your screenname is your identity here — not your face, not your distance, not your stats.
The original social status update. Write something real. Something funny. Something honest. Your away message is yours.
Real friendships, not follower counts. Your buddy list reflects who actually matters — not who's nearby.
Before status updates, before stories, before everything — there was the away message. A little window into who you actually were at 11pm on a school night. We brought it back.